Stocking stuffers at Christmas are kind of like cranberry sauce at Thanksgiving. It’s there every year, but it’s usually an afterthought. It’s the opening band for the big concert.
But don’t you think the Christmas stocking deserves a little more love? After all, those stockings — hung delicately over the fireplace — are the first to greet Santa as he belly flops into your living room, and the first to bid him farewell when he climbs back up.
Because we think stockings deserve a little more attention this Christmas, we thought we’d share our five rules for stocking stuffers:
• Set a dollar limit. This is top priority! How much are you going to spend on each stocking?
Some people like to keep the stocking stuffers cheap, while other people use the stockings to go all out with smaller gifts like jewelry or watches. Either way is fine, but make sure you budget for the stocking just like everything else.
• Put some thought into it. The stocking isn’t an afterthought. It’s a gift, like any other gift under the tree. Ask yourself this question: Am I filling the stocking just to say I’ve filled it, or am I buying stuff the other person will appreciate?
Maybe your spouse would like a Starbucks gift card and some chocolate more than a 10-pack of socks!
Think outside the stocking
Do you give the same stocking stuffers every year — a gift card, maybe a pack or two of gum and some candy? What could you do that’s completely different this year?
You might consider giving coupons for acts of kindness (like watching the kids one night while your wife goes out for a girl’s night), or giving details about a special summer vacation you’re saving for. Sometimes an experience is more memorable than a physical gift, so what type of experience can you provide with the stocking?
• Consider a theme. Rather than just a hodgepodge of different stuff, you might want to consider creating a theme for each stocking. It doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive, but that little bit of extra effort could make someone’s Christmas morning even more special.
• Don’t force it. There’s nothing wrong with simply using the stockings as decorations, and saving all your money for the gifts under the tree.
If your family has never done the stocking thing there’s no need to start now — unless you truly feel like the change will be worth it. Your traditions are your traditions. Own them, and be proud!
But if you find yourself trying to spice up your stocking-stuffer game this year, take these ideas to heart. We think your family and friends will appreciate the extra effort!
—Used with permission from DaveRamsey.com
John Richard Schrock is a professor at Emporia State University.Buildings do not make a university. When China began its great massification of higher education in the mid-1990s, building university campuses was the easy part. Staffing university classrooms with professors would take time.
Their small college student population consisted of those very top scorers on the high school leaving exam (the gao kao). The acceptance cut off was set by the number of seats in university classrooms, as it still is today. So as more classrooms were built, China already had the qualified students to fill them. Classrooms for undergraduate classes hold 60 students, the normal number in a high school class.
Older faculty trained before the Cultural Revolution would be retiring off. That 1965-1976 suppression of education also caused a professor shortage. Older professors trained under the pre-1965 Soviet model spoke Russian as a second language. Deng Xiaoping’s “opening up” of China in 1980 switched this second language — to be learned from elementary school upward — to English.
These older professors bridged the transformation of China’s universities. Most have now retired and the last of them will retire within the next five years. Professor’s retirement in China is mandatory at 60 or 65 for men and five years earlier for women, depending on their region and rank.
Before 1980, getting a Western masters or doctoral degree was considered capitalist. Overnight this changed. China adopted the American style of ranking: from assistant to associate to full professor. Masters and then doctorate degrees became required for all new university faculty. For evaluation, they adopted the U.S. Carnegie Research I university criteria, which focuses on three performances: research, research and research. I am speaking to the reality rather than their paperwork that purports to award research, teaching and service.
Placing research foremost short-changed their teaching. Formerly, Chinese professors had given quizzes (“little tests”) and one or more mid-term tests. Now they hurried to class, flashed a PowerPoint on the screen, read it, and asked “any questions?” They then run back to their labs and research like crazy. And it has paid off like crazy. Faculty pay relative to the U.S. is very low, but professors are then paid for extra duties such as masters and doctoral examinations and other tasks that we expect of American professors as part of their job. But publish research in an English language journal, and the cash reward can be as high as US$180,000 if the journal is Science or Nature! This has allowed China to rapidly close the research gap with the U.S. Based on author counts in Nature Index, Chinese authors will soon surpass us in the next few years.
Unlike equivalent U.S. schools, China does not assign graduate students to teach mammoth classes in huge lecture halls. But they stair-step their young faculty into teaching. A freshly-minted Ph.D. or post-doc student accepted at a Chinese university may not immediately enter the classroom. They may move up a research route instead. If they take the teaching track, they must take a language test. China still has many dialects and despite having mandated and universally taught standard Mandarin since 1949, they use an aural test for young aspiring lecturers who usually first spend time as tutors under senior professors. We only test English of foreign graduate teaching assistants…sometimes.
New American professors begin their own independent research on Day One. However, in Japan or France (until recently), all researchers work on the project of the top professor in the department. When he or she retires, everyone switches to working for the next senior professor. China has a hybrid system; some may have their own research lab if they are exceptional, or they may apprentice if they are not.
China also recruited to attract the best professors worldwide. Their “Thousand Talents” program brought in experts who were paid a million yuan (US$180,000) a year with an additional 3-4 million yuan a year to support their graduate assistants and research. While federal grant money in the U.S. is becoming harder to get, the Chinese NSF has tripled academic grants over the last three years.
Whether on a research or teaching track, you cannot achieve full professor rank here unless you have won the top teaching award. And to reach full professorship, you must work at least a semester at an overseas university. Many of my colleagues here have spent a semester or a year at Arizona State or University of Kansas or Cornell, or at other universities in Australia, Europe, etc. They have an extensive first-hand view of the world outside their country and they bring back state-of-the-art research experience.
Chinese universities are ranked “first ban,” ”2nd ban” and “3rd ban” and both students and professors strive to enter the highest rank. The 42 national universities contain the elite faculty, elite students and best facilities. Some provincial universities also have “key” centers of study. So the above descriptions and practices may vary across provinces and fields of study.
And for the last decade, China’s university faculty and staff have both an ample retirement plan and a health insurance package where none will go bankrupt from a health emergency. Maybe I should repeat that last statement.
John Richard Schrock is a professor at Emporia State University.
STAFFORD COUNTY— Law enforcement authorities and officials at USD 349 Stafford continue to investigate an incident involving a gun at the school.
After many hours of searching investigators and USD 349, officials did not find any weapon in or on school property in Stafford, according to Police Chief Doug Brown on social media.
Following several interviews and a search of a residence in the city of Stafford unrelated specifically to the weapon, police took a juvenile into custody for criminal threat and he was transported to Hutchinson.
An officer will be at the school Friday to ensure safety of students and staff and to put minds at ease, according to the police department.
On Thursday morning, parents in the school district were asked to pick up students. The district cancelled all classes and activities.
Over thirty officers from the Kansas Highway Patrol Ellinwood Police, Barton County Sheriff’s Office, KDOC Sort Team from Larned, Macksville Police, St. John Police and Stafford County Sheriff’s office assisted with the investigation.
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STAFFORD COUNTY— Parents in USD 349 Stafford were asked to pick up students Thursday morning.
There are no afternoon classes, according to the school. Just after noon, the district announced they had cancelled all other activities, according to their social media account.
School district officials were not available for comment on what prompted the abrupt in change in class schedule. Calls to law enforcement authorities were not immediately returned. The Stafford Chief of Police was still at the school, according to the police department.
Check the Post for additional details as they become available.
BARTON COUNTY ‑Barton County Sheriff Brian Bellendir has entered a not guilty plea on charges of mistreatment of a confined person which is a level A person misdemeanor.
Bellendir was scheduled to be in court Friday. He made the plea via journal entry and a hearing in the case is scheduled for a later date.
On November 1, Bellendir was issued a summons to appear in court following an investigation by the KBI.
According court records, Bellendir is accused of “ill-treating a man in handcuffs by speaking to him in a vulgar, insulting, rude or angry manner” while serving an arrest warrant on August 10th in Great Bend.
Bellendir is also accused of striking the confined man on the side of his head. That man has been identified as Nathan Manley of Ellinwood.
Manley-photo KDOC
In Kansas, a Class-A misdemeanor is punishable by up to one year in jail with a fine of up to $2,500.A conviction could mean problems for the Sheriff with the Kansas Commission on Peace Officers Standards and Training. C-Post as it is called, could take action regarding Bellendir’s certification.
Barton County Attorney Amy Mellor has requested that Chase County Attorney William Halvorsen serve as special prosecutor for the case.
Manley has previous convictions for drugs and burglary, according to the Kansas Department of Corrections.
KANSAS CITY, Kan. (AP) – A Kansas man who was released from prison after serving 23 years for two murders he didn’t commit has been offered a full scholarship to a Kansas City community college.
Lamonte McIntyre was offered the scholarship Wednesday by leaders of Metropolitan Community College-Penn Valley.
McIntyre was released from prison in October after Wyandotte County prosecutors dropped charges in a 1994 double murder.
The Kansas City Star reports that while McIntyre was in prison he studied for his GED degree and took college courses.
McIntyre is already taking classes at a barber academy and hopes to one day open his own salon. He plans to study business at Penn Valley.
Kansas does not offer any compensation to people who are wrongly convicted in the state.
The bar, 114 E. 11th, has operated in downtown Hays since 1943, according to current owner Eric Schuette.
Schuette, who also owns the Sip ‘N’ Spin, wanted to dispel rumors either bar was in financial trouble.
“Basically I am getting older, and the wear and tear of running two bars is getting to me,” said Schuette, 45. “I just want to lighten my load as I get older.”
The Brass Rail remains open and will remain open until such time as a new owner can be found. Schuette said he is under no pressure to sell.
He said he has mixed feelings about the future of the Brass Rail. He said he would like to see the historic bar remain a bar, but he is not opposed to considering a deal from someone who would like to buy the space for another purpose. He said he has soft spot for the historic business, but a new use would mean that the bar would not compete with the Sip ‘N’ Spin, which he intends to continue to run.
“My accountant keeps reminding me that nostalgia doesn’t pay the bills,” he said.
Schuette has been a part of Sip ‘N’ Spin for 22 years and owned the bar for 17 years. He has owned the Brass Rail for 11 years.
He said buying and running the Brass Rail was like owning a piece of Hays history. Schuette has tried to restore the bar to what it was like in previous years.
People often come in and say they met they met their husband or wife at the bar. One of Schuette’s friend’s grandparents and parents met at the local bar.
“It’s got a lot of history for one place,” he said.
Schuette was visiting Kansas City once and mentioned to some strangers that he operated two bars in Hays, Kansas. When he mentioned the Brass Rail, the men, who were from Missouri, smiled and told a story about visiting the bar in 1964.
“People remember that,” he said. “That is what I have always liked about it and that is why I continue to enjoy it over there too. It is a bit of history for Hays.
The 3,750-square-foot bar is listed for sale at $550,000. For more information, contact Tim Cossaart at RE/MAX Hays.
Share your memories of the Brass Rail in the comments.
WICHITA, Kan. (AP) — A convicted sex offender has been sentenced to more than 22 years in prison for sexually assaulting a 12-year-old Kansas girl.
The Sedgwick County District Attorney’s office announced that 44-year-old Kelly Farr, of Scott County, Kansas, was sentenced Wednesday for attempted rape.
The victim reported that Farr began assaulting her when she was in 6th grade and the abuse continued for two years.
Farr was also convicted in 2004 of indecent liberties with a child under the age of 14.
First responders at the scene of Wednesday’s 3-vehicle crash-photo courtesy KWCH
SEDGWICK COUNTY — Law enforcement authorities are investigating a suspect after a 3-vehicle crash.
Just after 10:30 a.m. Wednesday, police responded to an injury accident near the intersection of Lincoln and Market in Wichita, according to officer Charley Davidson.
A 56-year-old man was transported to a local hospital for treatment of series injuries.
Investigators learned a Ford Econoline van driven by a 69-year-old man was stopped at the intersection of Lincoln and Market. Behind the van was a 1999 Toyota Avalon occupied by the 56-year-old man and 2 other individuals.
A 2000 Mercury Grand Marquis driven by a 21-year old woman was northbound on Market. The Mercury intentionally rear-ended the Toyota that hit the van and injured the 56-year-old, according to Davidson.
Police arrested a woman on requested charges of aggravated battery and outstanding warrants.
Davidson indicated there was no road rage but did not released additional details on what prompted the crash.
SHAWNEE COUNTY — Law enforcement authorities are investigating a shooting that injured two people and have a suspect in custody.
Just after 3p.m. Wednesday, police following up on a citizen tip related to a shooting investigation and responded to a residence in the 700 block of SW Buchanan, in Topeka, according to a media release.
The shooting suspect identified as Donald Cornelius Dugan, 43, was located and taken into custody without incident.
He was transported to the Law enforcement center, interviewed by detectives and later booked into the Shawnee County Department of Corrections for the criminal charge of aggravated battery
Dugan has extensive criminal history with multiple prior felony convictions.
MONTGOMERY COUNTY — Law enforcement authorities are investigating a murder and asking for help to identify the victim.
On Thursday Deputies and Investigators were dispatched to the Card Creek camping area in Montgomery County to meet with hunters who had discovered what they thought was a deceased female floating in the water approximately a quarter of a mile south of the boat ramp, according to a media release.
Deputies from MGSO and Paramedics from Independence Fire and EMS boarded the hunter’s boat and were taken to the location where the woman was last seen. Paramedics loaded the woman into the boat and transported her to Labbette Health Hospital in Independence where she was pronounced dead.
Investigators from the Montgomery County Sheriff’s Office and Kansas Bureau of Investigations are currently investigating the incident as a homicide. The victim has not been identified.
Anyone who has can recognize any of the tattoos on the victim or has information about the incident is asked to call the Montgomery County Sheriff’s Office.
Marjorie Eva Miller, age 80, passed away on Wednesday, December 6, 2017 at the Hays Medical Center in Hays, Kansas. She was born on July 1, 1937 in Salt Lake City, Utah, the daughter of William and Eva Swenson Stam. A resident of Scott City, Kansas since 2012 moving from Liberal, Kansas, she was a homemaker.
She was a member of the Church of Christ in Liberal, Kansas.
On June 3, 1960 she married Bruce A. Miller in Salt Lake City, Utah. He passed away on August 23, 2003 in Liberal, Kansas.
Survivors Include her Four Daughters – Cindy & Brad Dunn of Park City, Kansas, Laura Stafford of Perkins, Oklahoma, Julie Lash of Salina, Kansas, Melissa & Rey Armendariz of Scott City, Kansas, Nine Grandchildren – Stone Stafford, Jessica Castillo, Cody Dunn, Lindsey Hughes, Christopher Lash, Eva Armendariz, Lucas Lash, Conner Armendariz, Case Armendariz, Two Great Grandchildren – Derek Hughes and Bryan Hughes.
She was preceded in death by her Parents, One Son – Michael Bruce Miller, One Grandson – Tanner Lee Stafford, Three Sisters – Lorene Benson, Betty Zissi, Marilyn Long, and One Brother – Bob Stam.
Funeral Services will be 10:00 a.m. Saturday, December 9, 2017 at Price & Sons Funeral Home in Scott City, Kansas with Rev. Robert Nuckolls presiding.
Interment will be in the Liberal Cemetery in Liberal, Kansas.
Memorials are requested to the Marjorie Miller Memorial Fund in care of Price & Sons Funeral Home in Scott City.
Visitation will be from 1:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. Friday at Price & Sons Funeral Home in Scott City, Kansas. Graveside services will be at 2:00 p.m. Saturday, December 9, 2017 in the Liberal Cemetery in Liberal, Kansas.
TMP-Marian signed into the National FFA Organization, as a member of the Northwest District in Kansas.
Currently, there are 19 members in the school’s chapter. TMP will be 1 of 14 new chapters in Kansas this year. However, TMP-Marian is the first chapter ever in a private school.
Two Kansas State University FFA officers made the trip to help sign the school’s new chapter into existence.
They explained the FFA Creed and the important meaning of the FFA jacket and seal. President Jacob Schmeidler lead the TMP-Marian officers in signing the FFA Chapter Charter.
The letters “FFA” stand for Future Farmers of America. These letters are a part of the history and the heritage of FFA. However, FFA is not just for students who want to be production farmers; FFA also welcomes members who aspire to careers as teachers, doctors, scientists, business owners and others.
For this reason, the name of the organization was updated in 1988 after a vote of national convention delegates to reflect the growing diversity and new opportunities in the industry of agriculture.
Today, the National FFA Organization remains committed to the individual student, providing a path to achievement in premier leadership, personal growth and career success through agricultural education.
SALINE COUNTY— Law enforcement authorities are investigating a suspect in connection with a stolen truck.
Just after 5p.m. Wednesday, deputies were dispatched to report of a suspicious vehicle in the 100 Block of South Main in the unincorporated community of Bridgeport, according to Saline County Sheriff Roger Soldan.
The 2004 Chevy Silverado had been parked at that location for several days. It was reported stolen from Beloit on November 29. Further investigation led deputies to a Salina motel where they arrested 44-year-old Jay A. Mott.
Deputies booked him into the Saline County Jail for alleged possession of stolen property.
Mott has a previous conviction for theft from Pottawatomie County, according to the Kansas Department of Corrections.